While we don’t fully understand why some dogs develop separation anxiety, it’s so important to remember that it is not your fault. Let me say that again, ‘it’s not your fault!’
Separation anxiety is a common behavioural challenge faced by lots of dog owners. While it’s natural for dogs to form strong bonds with their humans, some dogs experience significant stress and anxiety when left alone, which can lead to a range of troubling behaviours leading to added stress for both dog and owner.
What Is Separation Anxiety in Dogs?
Separation anxiety is a condition where a dog becomes extremely distressed when left alone or separated from their person. It is more than the usual whining or sadness many dogs might show when you leave it’s a deeper level of emotional distress that can affect their mental well-being and behaviour.
This anxiety can be triggered by a variety of factors, including:
- A change in routine (such as returning to work after a long period at home)
- Moving to a new home
- The loss of a family member (human or pet)
- Rehoming or adoption from a rescue
Common Signs of Separation Anxiety
Here are some common behaviours that may indicate your dog is struggling with being left alone. Please note that your dog doesn’t need to show all of these behaviours at once, just one can still be a sign of a separation related issue.
- Excessive Vocalisation
Persistent barking, whining, or howling shortly after you leave and continuing for long periods is a classic symptom.
- Destructive Behaviour
Chewing furniture, scratching doors, tearing up cushions or blinds, these are signs your dog may be trying to escape or cope with their stress.
- Pacing or Restlessness
Some dogs pace (go back and forth along a hallway) when they’re anxious.
- House Soiling
A dog who is normally house trained might urinate or defecate indoors when left alone due to anxiety, remember this is not bad behaviour and must not be punished.
- Escape Attempts
Trying to dig, chew, or claw their way out of a crate, door, or window is a dangerous sign of severe anxiety.
- Excessive Salivation or Panting
Physical signs like drooling or heavy panting can indicate high levels of stress.
- Clingy Behaviour When You’re Home
Dogs with separation anxiety often follow their owners from room to room and show signs of distress when they see you getting ready to leave.
Why It’s Important to Address It
Separation anxiety doesn’t go away on its own, it can also put a strain on your bond with your dog and even cause issues with neighbours due to excessive noise.
The good news? With patience, consistency, and the right guidance, separation anxiety can be managed and improved. So please get in touch and let’s discuss how I can help both you and your dog build a calm, confident and happy life together
Final Thoughts
Recognising the signs of separation anxiety is the first step toward helping your dog feel more safe and secure when you’re not around. With my support and training, your dog can learn that you leaving the house is no big deal and that you’ll always come back. Now wouldn’t that be great!
Debra x